NoH8. Ever.

I want to share a link with you.  I want to share an experience with you.  I want to share a feeling with you.

It’s the feeling of belonging to something bigger than you.  More powerful with each person.  It’s a feeling of WE can affect a change.  It’s within each of us.

In October, I, along with my wife and two of my dearest friends, participated in the Dallas NoH8 Photo Shoot.  It was simple enough, show up, look pretty, wear white and share a message.

A message that is simple….there’s not room for hate in love.  Love is love.  Period.  End.of.story.

Adam Bouska started this movement, to silently protest Prop 8 in California.  And he has continued to spread the word, to share the fight, to take breathtaking photos of everyday people who only have ONE thing in common.

We love.

Check his website, join the cause…. visit here.

And check this out….

photo courtesy of Adam Bouska

Photo Challenge – Day 30.

Here we are, the last Photo Challenge.  And it only took 60 days for me to finish.  Just think, now we go back to our regular broadcasting…

Day 30 – A picture of someone you miss.

If you know me, you know this…

My daddy.  My Hero.  My Protector.

No man will ever hold a candle to him.  I miss him to my core everyday.  I miss his laugh, his smile, his cologne, I miss everything about him.

When I am at my weakest, when I am at my saddest, I think of him…of how he would want me to act, how he would want me to hold my head high, to rise above it and most of all, to be a lady.

God…I miss him so….

I wonder if he would approve, not of my lifestyle, but of the woman I have become.  I have been told over and over, I am his likeness.  That I have grown into Sam’s daughter.  I am very proud of that.

I think that I am more like him every day.  I am more reserved like him, I sit back, take it all in and then make a move like him.  I talk like him and sadly as I get older, I am making those old people noises when I stand…like him, however I was recently told I am beginning to walk like my mother, which is hysterical…I think.

Dad…I miss you.  It breaks my heart that you aren’t here with me…you are always WITH me, but to not see you, to not be in your presence is a break that won’t go away.

I love you daddy….

Photo Challenge – Day 29.

Day 29 – A picture that can always make you smile.

Calvin and Hobbes. Always.

I have always loved comics….it’s something from my father, who was a comic creator, so watching him draw his “Rank and File” artist cells, I was hooked and fascinated.  These two have long been a favorite of mine.

This happens to be my wallpaper on my computer at work.  And everyday, I smile, just seeing it.  Calvin could be EveryKid at some point…

And for the moms and dads out there deal with us….thank you and we are sorry….

Photo Challenge – Day 28.

Day 28 – A picture of something you’re afraid of.

I can’t.  I can’t bear to post a picture of it…I literally got chills and gagged just trying to find a picture of one….

So, I will tell you, as long as you don’t laugh at me…


There.  I said it…

I know they are the sound of summer…but not when they are buzzing my head on the porch.  And not when the wife is videotaping me freak out as she picks one up.  Yeah, that was fun…

They completely freak me out and when they are close, I will turn into a 6-year-old girl and scream and run, er, walk very fast to get away!


Photo Challenge – Day 27.

Day 27 – A picture of yourself and a family member.

I haven’t said much about these folks, but they are from my earliest memories, all sewn together as one…

Me (in the middle) with DebraDeanGayla.

This is in my backyard on Harvey and I was abbbbout….3, maybe 4…but I think 3.  ( I was SO cute…pfftp!)

These three were my first friends (well, with the exception of Johnny Buss that I followed around EVERYWHERE!) but it was always us…

They are my first cousins on my dad’s side…and before long, there was a Cindy and much later a Cheryl.  So I have lots of family that sadly, I miss more than I can admit, because it’s foolishly been way too long with most of them being so close.  *sigh*

Dean, seriously, the only boy cousin I have…has features and looks of his Uncle Sam.  And it hurts my heart and makes me love him more.

Gayla, the one chick I wanted to be like, ALL the time.  And my goodness, how she loved playing with me.  I couldn’t wait to see Gayla.

Debra…this chick is cool.  Always was…even as a young child, I remember thinking…”I will never be Debra.”  She is like Joan Jett cool…and TINY!!!  holy cow! she’s so cute!

I miss my extended family.  My Aunt Dovie, the second cousins I have never met…the cousins I never see.

Methinks a family reunion should be planned.  If for no other reason that I can play with my cousins again!

For all of you…my debradeangayla…my Cindy and yes, even Cheryl….you have a part of my heart…the best part of my past, of my dad, your uncle, our grandmother lives within each of us…

I miss you and love you very much!

Photo Challenge – Day 26.

Day 26 – A picture of something that means a lot to you.

Many, many things run through my mind…my faith, my kids, my wife, my family…but they all know and they have already all been featured and well…I gotta keep their egos somewhat in check…so, this is a photo of somethings that mean a lot to me…

My friends, my soul sisters, my passion in life…the ones who are there, through thick and thin…who love me for me…

There are several that are missing from this picture, that makes them NO LESS important to me than this group does.  For my Sam & Glenn, for Pam and Maria, for Morgen and Dana….you too, are my dearest, my sweetest…I am so glad I met you, got to know you, reconnected with you and found a new appreciation for those around me. 

Folks, you won’t find people like this anywhere. They are amazing…from the hug when I walk through the door, to the phone call or text message just to let me know they care…I am in it with this group for the long haul.

And for as much as I will forever have their back…they have mine.  And that brings me a world of peace.  And happy…lots and lots of happy…

Photo Challenge – Day 24.

Day 24 – A picture of something you wish you could change.

funny enough, it’s not that I CAN’T change it…it’s I am too impatient to wait…

Yes, that’s me….yes, that’s my hair in two years ago this month…

I would love to have long-ish hair again…I cut it off and donated it to Locks of Love two years ago in memory of loved ones lost.  And well…I have kept it short, going shorter and shorter for two years.

I tried to grow it out once before and as soon as it touched my ears, I was done…cut it off!!!  I don’t have the patience for the “grow out” stage…I want it long overnight!

And no….I won’t do extensions…cause that would just be weird…

My folks may have to deal with “Troll Doll” hair for a while…I am thinking I need a change…

Photo Challenge – Day 23.

Day 23 – A picture of your favorite book.

I am sure you are expecting some grand novel or rare obscure reading….actually, I was trying to find something that would make me look way smarter, more existential than I am….but all I got is this…


I STILL have my copy of this book…from my childhood and I have read to both my kids dozens and dozens of times….

I can identify with Toad, the cynical, moody Toad.  Not that I AM a Toad….most days.  But I love the story of true friendship.  The kind that two people balance each other out.  That one compliments the other and the sweetness that comes from that…

I had all four at one time…now I have the first one…someday, I will complete that set…just like my Frog completes….me…(I had NO choice….)

I think I am gonna go find it now and catch up with some old friends!

Photo Challenge – Day 22.

I haven’t forgotten that I am supposed to do this daily, but my life gets in my way at times and this one took some time…

Day 22 – A picture of something you wish you were better at.

This was hard…not because I am that conceited that I am great at everything…but that there are MANY to choose from…some of them personal, some of them not so personal…some comical, some just plain obvious…

And I did learn that you DO NOT ask your daughter or your wife what their opinion would be…oh no…because then, they turn into comedians and tell you all sorts of things upon which you can improve.  I may speak to them again in about a year….

So I came up with this…

“I’m late! I’m late!  For a very important date.  No time to say “Hello.” ” Goodbye.”  I’m late, I’m late, I’m late!!!”

I know EXACTLY how long it takes me from shower to perfume to get ready for various thing….how long for work, for family dinner, for a party or for an event….I know to the minute how long it takes…and I run about 5-10 minutes late for most things in my life. 

I cannot EVER be on time to anything.  With the exception of my birth, I have never been on time.  EVER. 

I try.  I do…

Something will stop me…doesn’t matter….I get so distracted by everything when I am getting ready for anything…it’s so frustrating to the wife…she’s ready in 7.45 minutes.  And taps her foot and watches the clock….I worry sometimes that she’s having a seizure, then I realize, no, she’s only rolling her eyes at me…God love her…

It’s a genetic trait…my dad…always late.  My daughter, late, late, late…I have long said, she took 22 hours of hard labor to get here, we all wait for her…and I can’t yell or fault her for it…she get’s it from me.

Now, right now…I should be getting ready for a family reunion and to run a couple of errands…

…but I got a couple of minutes…

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